Memories are everything! This is a profound statement that I can relate to, and if parents can give their children a great gift, I would recommend memories, which I strongly believe are better than accomplishments.
People will eventually grow old, but in the seventies and eighties, the only thing left will be the long years of accumulated memories, some of which are their own, some of which are shared with their children, and if they do not go to some of the worthwhile things to be hidden in a book of memories, they will not be able to find them in the future.
I like the Zen saying by Zen Master Nissho: "If this minute is good, this minute will not be bad, because it is the same minute, which means that if you do different things in the same minute, the answer will be completely different! A person who watches the stars at this moment is very different from a person who watches TV at the same moment, and a person who watches a show at this hour is very different from a person who argues with his family at this hour.
Who's got a memory of time? I hope it's you.
What should I remember?
I wish it wasn't about tests, scores, grades, and being yelled at.
One of the walls in my friend's house is like a time tunnel, full of photo albums. I casually pulled out a photo album and found that it had the year, month, place, and the person in the photo, and that he had organized a photo album every year since he was born as a permanent memory; I asked him why he kept them. I asked him why he kept them, and he said he wanted to keep the memories for his children, so that they could be passed on from one generation to the next.
So he's collecting memories.
Leaving my friend's house I was deeply touched. In an era that emphasizes star schools, first aspirations, and success, there is a father who leaves a stamp for a humble memory. He understands early on that his son or daughter's accomplishments will not be his or her own in the end, but the memories will be, and he will imprint them with a deep imprint, which are all made by parent-child "play" together.
The record player holds old memories.
It's hard to choose between the two things that are going on in my mind.
He took his kids abroad at least once a year, and every holiday he took the whole family out, circling Taiwan and taking stacks of photos, which I jokingly call the spiritual treasure of a lifetime.
I am inspired and want to accumulate the wealth of my children's minds.
A few days ago, we enjoyed the sycamore blossoms together.
It's a cool night, so let's go watch the fireworks together.
I have a date tomorrow and will be riding solo in the cool air.
Yes, memory is so important, he is an eternal spiritual wealth, perhaps not to say, but the real existence, just as a reporter once asked me how to write, I told him to have a playful childhood, this is true, many of my works, as if they are extracting the nutrients accumulated in childhood, no playful childhood, I do not know what the memory of the shop to hide.
There is a passage in the book "Drunken Ancient Hall Sword Scrolls" written by Luk Hang of the Ming Dynasty, in which he divided people into many kinds of people, one of which is a higher kind of person. He said that a higher kind of person plays with the world, meaning to play with the world, and after all these years of regurgitation, I really understand that a person who plays with the world is in fact a higher kind of person.
In fact, people good ordinary, more than ninety-nine percent of the people can not be a hundred years of life, leaving a thousand years of fame, what we have is only a short life of the years, some of the memories worth mentioning left to the old slowly chewed.
Memories are really important, and the more authentic you play, the more flavorful it will be.
Author-You Qiangui