Parenting] Couples should praise each other, support each other, and respect each other to make each other happier.

First thing: Don't always compare the strengths of other husbands with the weaknesses of your own.

Husband and wife life, it is important to each other's mutual trust, mutual tolerance, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, people are not saints who can not be faults, when their husbands have some small shortcomings, small faults, do not count, and do not always take other people's husbands and their husbands compared to because no one likes to be compared to other people, everyone has their own trajectory in life, everyone's strengths and weaknesses are different, just like when I was a child my mother always took the neighbor's children to compare themselves with the same, they must be very upset, why always take other people's strengths to compare themselves with perhaps this can also promote their learning to some extent, but feelings are different. Just like when I was a child, my mother always compared my neighbor's children to myself, and I must be very sad, why do you always take other people's strengths to compare with yourself, maybe this can also promote their own learning to a certain extent, but the feelings are not the same.

 Especially in married life, you always compare other people's husbands with your own husband, it is easy for your husband to think that you actually do not love him, you have been telling him that you have many shortcomings, I dislike, over time will break your man's heart, and also cold heart.

The second thing: Don't always be aggressive, even in front of outsiders to lose face of the man

Self-esteem who have, people live in the world, face is still to have, no matter what work, we should respect, not to mention married life, plus men love face, and as a wife should know how to take care of the man's face.

Now many men do not like strong women, because too strong women always give a sense of distance, especially couples, of course, there are some men like this kind of woman, this kind of I put aside, but in general, the woman is always very strong, and even in front of outsiders also do not care about the face of their husbands, then it is very hurtful to the heart of the man, after all, the man also hope that their own woman is a little birdie that kind of, more gentle and physical The

The third thing: always saying your man is "no good".

People like to listen to good words, even if it is a well-intentioned lie good, perhaps the speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart, then it may make the listener feel bad, perhaps your words are not wrong, but many times encouragement and praise words often more can make a person change.

Couple life is even more so, couples should be more supportive of each other, mutual encouragement, life more or less will encounter some bad and life downturn, but as long as couples are united, encourage their men, so that men will be more motivated and motivated, if you always say that their men "can not", either not making money, or the ability to do not work, especially the most hurtful thing about this man.

People don't like to have their efforts denied, and this is especially true of married couples, who are birds of the same feather and should praise, support and respect each other, only then will they be happier.