【親子教養篇】 給孩子一輩子的好禮物

Children live with their parents every day, and the relationship between the two parents is like the air that surrounds the child; it is everywhere and every second, except that parents often forget that they are in charge of the quality of this air at all times.

Husband and wife are the most intimate of all human relationships. It can be strong or fragile; it can be sweet as molasses or bitter as bile; it can be committed with life or brutalized with life; it can be contrary to each other, or it can be united with one heart and one mind. ...... Do husband and wife want to create fresh air for their children to grow and thrive, or do they want to emit foul air for their children to suffer and shrivel up?

In a good husband and wife relationship, from the little things in life, children deeply experience that love is mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual service and responsibility. They see that the joy of sharing is doubled and the sorrow of sharing is lessened. They also saw that love must be poured out every day, and that marriage is a lifelong relationship that must be operated; they witnessed that marriage is not a tomb of love, but a theater where love is staged.

The interaction between husband and wife is a model for children to learn about interpersonal relationships: Sincere communication can enhance emotional and spiritual bonding; respecting each other as guests lets children know that even if they are as close as husband and wife, they still need to respect each other; supporting each other, raising children together, and assuming family responsibilities, responsibilities let children realize that husband and wife are the common body of life; and the occasional faults, conflicts, and the ways to solve them between husband and wife let children witness the true human nature and emotional ups and downs of human nature. On the other hand, the occasional faults, conflicts and solutions between husband and wife allow children to witness the real human nature and the ups and downs of emotions. Whether it is the rain that clears the sky or the flash floods, it is a different version of the teaching material!

但願父母們彼此相待的眼神時時充滿著微笑，小孩會「珍藏」這些微笑，並「運用」這微笑背後的大道理追求美的人生！良好的夫妻關係，是父母送給小孩一輩子最值得珍藏或運用的好禮物