Parenting] The Joy of Growing Up-Parents

I. Focus of home education: developing self-care skills

As the old saying goes, "Be knowledgeable, be critical, be prudent, be discerning, and be diligent." The so-called erudition is the ability of a person to stand in the world and live in all aspects of real life. This is precisely the subject that modern family education needs to pay attention to and emphasize. Therefore, cultivating children's ability to take care of themselves is one of the most important things.

Secondly, there are some specific aspects that need to be carefully observed.

Parents need to spend time with their children to learn and do things that are good for them physically and mentally. When choosing an extracurricular class, try not to choose a class that is designed to make your child learn quickly, which can lead to a quick fix. It's better to choose content that allows your child to calm down, settle down, and think deeply. If your child can settle down, he or she will not be a poor learner. If they can listen attentively in class, they will be able to do their homework faster.

還可以增加一些藝術方面的內容，比如鋼琴，二胡，古琴，古箏等，兒童唱詩班，也很不錯。當然，這些要根據家裡的經濟狀況來選擇。有智慧的家長應該教會孩子什麼是健康的飲食，並多陪孩子做戶外運動來消耗體內的多餘能量。孩子的成長需要家長的精心陪伴和呵護，孩子看的書一定要家長篩選過，現在外界的不良影響太多。

III. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words

What parents want their children to do, they should first reflect on whether they can do it themselves. The growth process of our children will be like a mirror reflecting the inadequacies of our parents. For the sake of our children, as parents, we really need to work hard to improve ourselves. This is because the power of setting a good example can help our children to learn from our children's mistakes and internalize them into a good character that will last a lifetime and be beneficial to them.