Parenting] The Joy of Growing Up-Parents

I. Focus of home education: developing self-care skills

As the old saying goes, "Be knowledgeable, be critical, be prudent, be discerning, and be diligent." The so-called erudition is the ability of a person to stand in the world and live in all aspects of real life. This is precisely the subject that modern family education needs to pay attention to and emphasize. Therefore, cultivating children's ability to take care of themselves is one of the most important things.

Secondly, there are some specific aspects that need to be carefully observed.

Parents need to spend time with their children to learn and do things that are good for them physically and mentally. When choosing an extracurricular class, try not to choose a class that is designed to make your child learn quickly, which can lead to a quick fix. It's better to choose content that allows your child to calm down, settle down, and think deeply. If your child can settle down, he or she will not be a poor learner. If they can listen attentively in class, they will be able to do their homework faster.

You can also add some art programs, such as piano, erhu, guqin, guzheng, etc. Children's choir is also very good. Of course, the choice depends on the family's financial situation.

Wise parents should teach their children what a healthy diet is, and do more outdoor exercise with them to burn off excess energy. Children's growth requires careful accompaniment and care from parents, and the books that children read must be screened by parents, as there are too many bad influences from the outside world nowadays.

III. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words

What parents want their children to do, they should first reflect on whether they can do it themselves. The growth process of our children will be like a mirror reflecting the inadequacies of our parents. For the sake of our children, as parents, we really need to work hard to improve ourselves. This is because the power of setting a good example can help our children to learn from our children's mistakes and internalize them into a good character that will last a lifetime and be beneficial to them.