Parenting: A good gift for your child's whole life.

Children live with their parents every day, and the relationship between the two parents is like the air that surrounds the child; it is everywhere, and it exists all the time, except that parents often forget that they are in charge of the quality of this air all the time.

Husband and wife are the most intimate of all human relationships. It can be strong or fragile; it can be sweet as molasses or bitter as bile; it can be committed with life or brutalized with life; it can be contrary to each other, or it can be united with one heart and one mind. ...... Do husband and wife want to create fresh air for their children to grow and thrive, or do they want to emit foul air for their children to suffer and shrivel up?

In a good husband and wife relationship, from the little things in life, children deeply experience that love is mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual service and responsibility. They see that the joy of sharing is doubled and the sorrow of sharing is lessened. They also saw that love must be poured out every day, and that marriage is a lifelong relationship that must be operated; they witnessed that marriage is not a tomb of love, but a theater where love is staged. The interaction between husband and wife is a model for children to learn about interpersonal relationships: Sincere communication can enhance emotional and spiritual bonding; respect for each other lets children know that even if they are as close as husband and wife, they still need to respect each other; supporting each other, raising children together, and assuming family responsibilities let children realize that husband and wife are the common denominator of life; and occasional faults, conflicts and solutions between husband and wife let children On the other hand, the occasional faults, conflicts and solutions between husband and wife allow children to witness the true human nature and the ups and downs of emotions. Whether the rain clears the sky or a flash flood erupts is a different version of the textbook! Hopefully, when parents look at each other with smiles in their eyes, children will "treasure" these smiles and "apply" the principles behind them to pursue a beautiful life!