Every day when we wake up, we give each other a good mood - hugs make getting out of bed less difficult ....
Enrico, hurry up, I'm in a good mood! Look, I got a hug! Enri replied, "Me too!"
Teaching my kids to get up and go to the bathroom every morning seemed like a difficult task, but one morning I had a flash of insight and said to my kids, "Let's see who gets up first, and I'll hug them. I'll hug whoever gets up first?" My five-and-a-half-year-old daughter jumped out of bed and gave me a deep hug. My smart and sweet daughter said to me, "Thank you, Mom, for putting me in a good mood.
Daily "hugs" have long been a necessity in our family life, and now my daughter has sublimated hugging into a continuation of good feelings because every day when we wake up, we give each other a good mood so that getting up is no longer a difficult task, and we also give each other a "good mood" after school.
Since I was a child, I grew up in a hugging family. Even after I got married and had children, I would hug or walk hand in hand with my parents when I went to my mother's house. Naturally, I also hugged my children to build up a relationship with them. I remember when I first got married, my husband didn't like hugs very much. When I asked him about it, I found out that my in-laws were very busy in the early days and didn't hug them very much, so I wasn't as accustomed to hugging my family members as I should have been.
How long has it been since you've given a hug to your family, other loved ones or friends? Have you unconsciously drifted apart from each other? Give yourself a good day! Give others a good mood too. When you come home today, give your father, your significant other, your children, your brothers and sisters .... a hug and a good mood. Give your father, your significant other, your children, your brothers and sisters a hug and a good mood! And tell them, "I love you! Thank you for taking care of me and for everything you've done in my life." I am sure your relationship with your family and friends will become closer.
Blessings to each and every one of you, for a 'good day' every day!
Excerpted from Plowshares Monthly