Why is it that parents of pre-schoolers are constantly worried about how old they are and why they still can't ......? What kind of pressure and values make parents lose the surprise and enthusiasm of "discovering" the growth process? Year after year, I teach in the U.S. on weekdays and go back to Taiwan to give lectures in the summer. I often wondered, "Why are the questions I get from parents in Taiwan and the United States so different from the questions I get from parents in the United States about parenting? When parents in the U.S. come to me, most of the conversation is centered on explaining